For my Christian friends, I am about to plummet into some divisive territory. I do so with caution, but I think it’s important enough to warrant the controversy. For my non Christian friends, this entire landscape of this post will seem bizarre. That’s OK–this is a church culture thing that will likely strike you as insane.
Let me start with a bit about applying uncertainty to your interpretation of Scripture. Let’s take it as a given that the Bible is the (Capital “T”) Word of God, inerrant. Let’s also assume that it is complete (that is, the Bible has everything a Christian needs for life and godliness).
What are we justified in concluding from those premises? Well, we can conclude that any argument that is based on the Bible will be true and that it will accurately describe the world. But we’re missing something massive. We don’t have access to “the Bible.” We only have access to our interpretation of the Bible. It takes the Bible plus interpretation to get to something that you and I can use. “The Bible” has a lot to say–but it is far from an instruction manual, and it gives general principles far more than it gives specific practices (indeed, its authors are often at pains to condemn the legalistic practices that often result from misleading interpretations–see Jesus berating the Pharisees for misunderstanding the meaning of the Sabbath, or for not taking care of their aging parents by way of a loophole, for two good examples).
That means that we have some sort of Kant-esque problem, where we can’t access “The Bible in Itself” but only “The Bible as we understand it.” It certainly does not follow that we cannot access the truth in the Bible. But it does mean that we need to pay more attention to the instrument of interpretation–namely, ourselves.
As both experience in the world and the Bible testify, the instruments of interpretation (humans) are at our best bent, and at our worst self-servingly disingenuous to the facts in front of us. I think that true humility consists in an understanding of our own fallibility when it comes to matters of interpretation (that goes for all interpretation, and it gives rise to this blog’s title).
Let’s return to our assumptions. From our assumptions about the nature of the Bible, it clearly does not follow that our interpretation (even a well-meaning and thoughtful interpretation) will result in me, an individual human, actually having the view that’s contained in the Bible. The very act of interpretation, which is necessary before I can have any of the Bible’s truth and right perspective, requires that I may not be accessing the truth that I believe the Bible to have.
It would be a foolish argument to conclude that we can’t access any of the truths contained in the Bible. There’s a spectrum, leading outward from things that are clear in the Bible (let’s put “Jesus is God and saves Christians from their sins,” and “God, and God alone, created the world” in this category). Yes, you might not be 100% certain (from a supposed “objective standpoint”), but the evidence from reading the Bible is compelling. I define “compelling” here as, “you can’t construct another plausible interpretation that uses the same texts but leads to a mutually exclusive conclusion.” There no real rival reading of Jesus coming to earth, being a man and God, and dying for the sins of his followers. That’s the plain reading of the Gospels (not to mention the rest of the New Testament). You can’t read Genesis and not get that God made the world and everything in it. Any other attempt at interpreting those texts seems silly, and rightly so.
There are also some broad areas of practice that are clear: murder is wrong. Experience in the world (I include conscience here) also bears that out, but you can’t read the Bible as not condemning murder and still provide a coherent explanation of the texts.
But with respect to other areas of practice, I argue, interpretation, rather than Scripture, plays the dominant role. Think of it like a spectrum: the closer you are to my definition of compelling, the harder it is for bent instruments (us) to misunderstand. The Bible’s truth dominates. The farther away from strictly compelling (e.g., other readings of the same texts can plausibly result in a mutually exclusive conclusion) you go, the more the interpretation effect dominates. And when the interpretation effect dominates, all bets are (progressively more and more so) off about how closely our preferred conclusion actually matches up with the Bible’s truth.
I’ve laid the groundwork, now it’s time for controversy. Within the Christian context in which I was brought up, people believe (I would even call it an assumption) that the father of girls has a specific authority over that girl that is distinct from what he has over boys. There’s nothing “creepy” about it–the (well-meaning) idea is that the father is supposed to protect his daughter by keeping bad boys away from her (this mostly crops up during discussions of relationships). This comports with experience up to a point–most people think that young girls (like 13) do need to be protected to a degree (experience differs about whether this is distinct from the protection of, say, a 13 year-old boy, but that’s not the point of this post). But I have heard it (and seen it acted on) many times, that before a girl can date a guy (or “court” or whatever you prefer to call that), the guy has to get the approval of the girl’s father. This includes the father’s ability to say “no” when both the girl and the boy want to date. I have seen guys “date” their hopefully future girlfriend’s dad, where the dad hangs out with him, makes him read books, etc, to “vet” him. Note that there is no corresponding “vetting” of a girl from the boy’s parents, which is why I frame the question the way that I chose to (“Does the Bible say that women are distinctly under the authority of their fathers?” The “distinctly” is doing a lot of work in that sentence, as it does in practice).
This leads to my question: Where does the Bible proscribe, or even describe, this practice? This practice does not pass my definition of compelling. There is no text, or stream of texts, or coherent theme throughout Scripture, that rules out a mutually exclusive conclusion (such a conclusion would be: the Bible has nothing to say about a distinct authority fathers have over their daughters, so it is up to the conscience of the individual family–I did not say “father” because that presumes that fathers have a distinct authority for such decisions–determine what that means). In other words, this idea that women are specially under their fathers’ authority (until marriage) is pretty far into the “interpretation-dominant” area of the compelling spectrum.
I’m actually not sure where you would look in the Bible to form such a conclusion. You might look to the passages by Paul on marriage, and how the husband should love his wife and lead her as Christ loved the church, but that says nothing about daughters, and the flow there is exclusively focused on the analogy between the husband to Christ and the wife to the church. Kids don’t factor into that analogy very well, so drawing much from that seems dubious. You could look to Old Testament practice, and say that fathers there determined most of their family’s choices, which would include their daughters. But as biblical intellectuals are quick to point out, one should be very careful about trying to cut strips from the OT practice and apply them to today, for about a million reasons. Polygamy is prevalent in the OT, but few would say that that was a practice that God proscribed. There’s very little that has to do with general male-female relations in the Bible, other than specific situations (husband and wife, women and the church) that clearly exclude daughters.
Let me ask it again: Does the Bible say that women are distinctly under the authority of their fathers?
Convince me.